Sunday, July 15, 2012

catching zzzz's

On Sunday mornings, I like to wake up at my normal time. Keeping a routine sleep schedule the whole week leaves me feeling refreshed and awake come Monday mornings instead of dreading the sound of the alarm. After waking on the weekend, I like to grab my Sunday paper and eat breakfast with my coffee before the girls rise asking me, "What are we going to do that's fun today?" This seems to be their favorite weekend (and summertime weekday) question.

One of the articles in the paper today was on the impact that 'blue light', or the light emitted from our smart phones, tablet screens and gadgets, is having on our sleeping. While it has been known for a while that lights and other types of electronic media can exacerbate sleep disorders, recognized again by the American Medical Association in  June, recent attention has been given to the 'blue light' phenomenon.

In the article published in the July 15, 2012 edition of the St. Paul Pioneer Press, Monica Eng, of the Chicago Tribune writes, "Any light at night can be disruptive, researches say, but in recent years studies have zeroed in on the particularly potent "blue light" emitted abundantly from the energy-efficient screens of smartphones and computers as well as many energy-saving fluorescent bulbs. Because blue light is especially prominent in the daylight, our bodies associate it with daytime, which may be why exposure to blue light can make us more alert and improve our response times. It also has been shown to suppress melatonin, a hormone that helps regulate sleep and is not produced during the day."

It is hard to disconnect at the end of the day and I myself have been in bed on more than one occasion, iPad in hand, reading a book or checking for the latest facebook updates. The result is a little more tossing and turning before finally reaching the point where I drift off. Overall, it seems that most of us are spending more time with our heads on the pillow without actually sleeping. So as I washing dishes this morning, pondering the article I had just read, it occurred to me that we are really are trying to "catch" zzz's.


Being able to fall asleep soundly has little to do with the moment you get into bed, and a lot to do with your actions and behaviors during the day leading up to bedtime. Admittedly, I've never been a great sleeper, but over the last few years, that has changed quite a bit. I started to identify and acknowledge the disruptions that were keeping me awake and focused on changing the patterns associated with each one until the night's rest was effortless. If you're having troubles falling asleep or staying asleep here are a few things to try. 


Keep your bedtime routine consistent. Our bodies have all sorts of internal clocks and schedules and providing consistency in terms of bed time and other daily habits can aid in our ability to turn in at night. Try and wake up at the same time each day and go to bed at the same time each night. 


Love your bedroom and keep it comfortable and cool. Some people can fall asleep anywhere (my husband included in this bunch). And some are more like the Princess and the Pea. I fall into the latter category. I am a believer that rooms in our home should be maintained as the type of room that they are designated. Your kitchen is for cooking and eating, you living room is for relaxing and visiting, and your bedroom should be for sleeping and well...you know ;-) Having a bedroom that is cluttered or doubles as a craft room/exercise room/computer room/office does not make it conducive to sleeping. In fact, it can do the opposite. Seeing visual reminders of stimulating activities can cause your thoughts to turn into a to-do list instead of promoting relaxation. Likewise, if your bedroom is full of untended to laundry and piles of other things, you may be reminded of what didn't get done causing anxiety and another list of things to do. Aside from keeping the room clutter free and clean make sure that your bed suites you. Bedding should be weather appropriate for the temperature, your room should be dark when going to sleep, and the temperature should be cool to promote better sleep. 


Avoid eating and exercising within a few hours before bedtime.  Exercising before bed can increase heart rate and body temperature, not to mention release endorphins and adrenaline that while at other times may leave you feeling great, but pre-bed can leave you feeling restless. Some people swear by a nighttime workout, but I have found that it doesn't work for me if its within two hours of my bedtime. As far as the eating goes, it's best to avoid meals or desserts that are high in fats and sugars and to avoid beverages that contain sugars or caffeine. These beverages or types of food can also increase heart rate and body temperature leaving you laying in bed waiting for the effects to wear off. 


Organize your thoughts. A lot of the time what keeps you awake at night are your thoughts. It can be a recap of the day or an endless barrage of ideas and notions that just doesn't seem to stop. When you find this happening, tune into what you're hearing in and give it some attention. There are times when it is warranted to get back out of bed and grab a piece of paper and a pen and put some of these things down on paper. When you're in bed, your body is idle giving your brain time to take over. You don't often find yourself where the only demand being made of you is to fall asleep. If you find that the thoughts that you are having are consistent, then I would suggest looking at these as being areas for you that are out of balance. During your awake hours, you can then spend some time devoted to better managing these areas alleviating some of the evening hour concerns.  


Have a routine. If you have kids, or recall being a kid, you know that bedtime had a routine. Parents sound the alarm, "Okay, it's time for bed!" and then a whole host of activities start around the preparation for bed. In my house, the alarm is preceded by "bedtime snack" and "bedtime movie", followed by "bedtime hug and kiss." In between, there's pajama time and time to brush your teeth. In the adult world, yeah...not so much. Maybe adult bedtime looks more like this...bedtime starts around 9:30 PM where eyes start to take a little longer to open in between "watching" whatever happens to be on TV. This is preceded by a little internet perusing. When subject realizes that they are starting to fall asleep but doesn't want to go to bed yet, it must be time for a snack. Mmmm...ice cream. Subject returns to the couch with a bowl of ice cream and some soda (pop - for my Midwestern readers) and decides to now peruse the internet while watching TV and eating ice cream. Around 10:30 PM, the laptop is closed and so are the eyes. With a stomach full of fat and sugar, the subject has dozed off on the couch with the light and TV on. Subject rouses around 1 AM, ambles upstairs to bed, and then lays there for while because #1 they are full of sugar and caffeine and #2 they are thinking about the sticky bowl they forgot to bring upstairs and the light they left on in the haze when waking up. Subject gets back out of bed, turns off the light, puts the bowl in the sink full of dishes and climbs back into bed. Now they are laying there thinking about the sink full of dirty dishes and the fact that the sink is full because the dishwasher didn't get fixed this weekend like it was supposed to. Now the subject starts thinking about what they are going to need to fix the dishwasher and the trip to the store that will be necessary to get the parts. While they are at the store, they might as well pick up a few of things that were on sale this week like deck stain and laundry detergent. They wonder about what color they are going to stain the deck this year and then realize that they don't know what type of finish to buy so the grab the iPad next to their bed to look it up....and so on and so forth. It's now 3AM. 


Yes, yes, I got a little carried away there, but you've been there, right? So the routine...designate your wind-down time (TV, books, knitting, internet browsing) and complete it by that time, wear pajamas or other clothing that suggest bedtime, wash your face, brush your teeth, turn down your bed, and try to do these things around the same time every night. I know it can sound a little silly, but our bodies really do better when they know what to expect. Do I do this each and every night? No. Do interruptions and spontaneity happen? Yes, of course. But does it help...yes. 


Here's to a better sleep! 

Saturday, July 14, 2012

health & wellness - defined

When I started my Facebook page just a few days ago, I knew that a blog was soon to follow – as in that night. I’ve learned that’s how I operate – kind of a “pedal to the metal” girl. My mom laughed at me as I was disclosing my future plans and concluded with, “I know it sounds like a lot but I’m planning on starting this all over time. It will take a little while. If all goes well, everything should be in place by January, 2013.” That’s me – think, think, think and then BAM! Here we go!


Alright, so let’s define these words of health and wellness. There has certainly been a ton of buzz in just about every market available with some claim to either one or the other – or both. And it’s no secret as to why. I think that we all pretty much know that our health and wellness in the United States is an abomination; or that’s at least how I feel about. Crisis is also a pretty common term for its description too, but to me that lacks a certain sense of anger I feel when thinking about it. There will be more about that in later posts…

Products and services that make claims to improve health and wellness are on the increase as are their sales. (Click here if would like to see some numbers and facts on this.) But yet, if one were asked to define the components of either health or wellness, the general idea may be understood but maybe not the depth of their definitions or importance in our lives.

Let’s start with health. Merriam-Webster defines health as:
1a : the condition of being sound in body, mind, or spirit; especially : freedom from physical disease or pain
1b : the general condition of the body <in poor health><enjoys good health>
The World Health Organization (WHO) defines health as:
a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.


Both of these definitions have their merits and encompass more than just the standard concept of health as being the, “…general condition of the body.”


Defining wellness takes this a few steps further as it is often referred to as having dimensions – with the number varying based on the study or author of the explanation. The ten most frequently discussed dimensions are:
1.      Social Wellness
2.      Occupational Wellness
3.      Spiritual Wellness
4.      Physical Wellness
5.      Intellectual Wellness
6.      Emotional Wellness
7.      Environmental Wellness
8.      Financial Wellness
9.      Mental Wellness
10.  Medical Wellness


As you may have surmised, these dimensions do not exist individually but rather coexist impacting one another. My job as a wellness coach is to help others balance these dimensions in their lives.
Thank you to Christopher for generating the idea for this particular posting. Sometimes it’s good to take a step back and look at the big picture.
Stay balanced.

Thursday, July 12, 2012

balance - the beginning

I imagine that walking across a tight rope would scare the hell out of me. I mean, I don't even know if I would take the step off of the platform on to the rope. There would certainly be a lot to consider   - especially the fall. What if I got hurt? What if I started walking across but couldn't make it the rest of the way? What if I lost my balance?

My tight rope was starting this blog and my new facebook page with the intention of turning my passion of helping others into an actual, lucrative career. Needless to say, I've spent a lot of time standing on the platform contemplating the first steps. Within the last few weeks, my confidence has grown along with my bravery. And here I am tonight, making my first blog entry after an incredible day where I've watched my dreams start to become reality.

This entry is so appropriate as my first because what has inspired me to take action are my future clients. I've needed to do what I will be asking of others - to put aside reservations, to organize life in a way so that it works, to start taking steps that align with goals, and to show gratitude for what is already in place - to trust, to believe, and to persevere. 

Life will always present moments when you feel completely out of balance. It is in these times that your sense of equilibrium, or lack thereof, is heightened. The restoration of balance is craved because it brings back a comfort that we take for granted until it’s lost. The absence of balance can be paralyzing because without it, there is uncertainty in what will happen with the next step. Predictability is lost and hesitation sets in – or fear, or worry or a whole other host of emotions that confine our experiences instead of allowing for them to be experienced with freedom and joy.

What I have learned is how to get that balance back. What I want to share with others is how to do the same. I am excited for the rope ahead and look forward to taking those steps…are you?